Darth Apathy

Musings of an Evil Genius

Federal judge rules Texas gay marriage ban un-Constitutional

Anyone who’s known me for more than five minutes knows that I don’t give a damn about the gay marriage debate. In fact, I don’t give a damn about the marriage debate at all. One should not need the approval of others to solidify his/her relationship.

That said, these anti-gay marriage laws are un-Constitutional. They are a clear violation of the 14th Amendment.

Now, I know the pro-Christianist fascists will proclaim that gays have the right to marry someone of the opposite sex just like everyone else, but, like all things Christian, it is a serious logical fallacy. Whereas non-gays get to marry the ones they love, gays are denied that same right in a majority of states. How is this in any way equal under the law? No Christianist has ever been able to answer this question because their ridiculous book of fairy tales says, and I quote:

“If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.” (Lev. 20:13)

This statement is upheld by Jesus, Mary’s illegitimate bastard himself (yes, I know I’m being redundant), by stating:

“17 Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.
18 For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished.
19 Therefore whoever relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever does them and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
20 For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:17-20)

So, go on. Lie to me. Tell me that God loves everyone, when even his own propaganda book says differently. I dare you.

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Gay Pride

I don’t get “gay pride”. Really, I don’t. And I’m speaking as a gay man. Being gay is as much a part of me as my own sense of humanity. To say that I’m proud of being gay is about the same as saying I’m proud of having a heartbeat or of breathing oxygen. It’s simply part of who I am and nothing more. How does having a bunch of scantily-clad nelly queens or uber-butch leather daddies prancing about on a parade float embody any form of pride?

The days of “I’m here! I’m queer! Get used to it!” have been over for a long time. How about we try “I’m here! Let’s get along!” Or rather, to use a common colloquialism, “you attract more bees with honey than with vinegar”. Being disagreeable for the sake of being disagreeable accomplishes nothing more than alienating potential allies. It’s entirely possible to disagree without being disagreeable. As a culture, we Americans spend way too much time and energy focusing on what makes us different, rather than on what makes us the same.

Yes, I understand the Christian oppression of anything gay. Let’s just say I’m intimately aware of it and leave it at that. Rather than being confrontational and stoking the fires of hate and intolerance, we can show people that gays are just like everyone else: we wake up, we hug our loved ones, we go to work, we come home, we hug our loved ones again, and we go about our lives, bringing harm to no one.

Yes, there will always be Christians like Fred Phelps and his clan; that, unfortunately, is unavoidable. There will always be those who value hate more than humanity. In my experience, ignoring them is the best thing to do; it deprives them of their so desperately sought martyr complex.

In short, be yourself, but don’t go out of your way to rub it in other people’s faces. As someone once said, “Can’t we all just get along?”

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